Next time things are heating up between you and your partner, take the opportunity to climb aboard and get on top. Not only can it be a lot more playful than your usual go-to position, but cowgirl-style sex offers distinct advantages. Plus, if you have trouble reaching orgasm, being on top lets you control the speed and depth, she adds, so the action is more to your liking. And you can do it all without ordering him to go harder, faster, or slower, like you may find yourself doing when he's at the helm. True, woman on top itself is not new.
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9 Tips For Making Sex On Top Easier For The Pillow Princess
At WH , we're here to help you make your sex life better. And, in the time of sexual wellness hitting the mainstream see: Boots' freshly comprehensive range of sex toys and the boom of ' erotic audio ', like the Dipsea app , which has been downloaded , times, since launching in December it makes sense to speak more candidly about ways to enhance your time under the covers. Enter: our handy sex tips for women guide. FYI, these are targeted at women who have sex with men or people who have penises, but many of the points can be applied to folk of any gender.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Q: I read your article about how to move during sex , but I need some serious help with being on top. I wind up hardly moving, and then I feel like an idiot.