While the request may have thrown you for a loop, the reality is, playing with domination and submission can be a huge turn-on in the bedroom or, you know, wherever you're getting it on. For the partner being tied up, there's often something incredibly hot about handing over complete control. From the achingly sexy to the hella awkward, here are eight women's tales of what it was like to be tied up in bed for the first time. Needless to say, the following stories are NSFW. I've been looking for that level of turn-on ever since. Actually, I was a bit nervous.
Why does my girlfriend only achieve orgasm when tied up?
Why does my girlfriend only achieve orgasm when tied up? | Science | The Guardian
Dear Carole, Why does my girlfriend enjoy being tied up? Sex always involves rope, handcuffs or restraints of some sort, and often uniforms. She is anything but submissive outside the bedroom, but seems unable to achieve orgasm without being restrained in some way. When we have "vanilla" sex she enjoys it, but when tied she always has multiple orgasms. While I'm not complaining at her tastes, I'm not sure I can see the evolutionary benefit … apart from attracting men who are dominant in bed, which, at the risk of doing myself down, seems a dubious sort of goal at best.
8 Women Describe What It's Like to Be Tied Up in Bed
By MailOnline Reporter. A year-old Chinese schoolgirl has been rescued after being chained up by her neck in a dark home-made dungeon for nearly a month by a middle-aged man, who repeatedly raped her, according to authority. The suspect, known by his surname Long, used a five-metre-long foot-long iron chain as well as five extra padlocks to bind the girl to the wall of the damp basement.
Men working in the nearby palm oil farm in Borneo would come into the brothel and could pay a couple of quid to have sex with a prostitute, or, shockingly, with her. Knowing what was expected, Pony would gyrate her hips when a punter came to the door before being raped by men twice the size of her who paid her owner for the experience. No one knows exactly how long Pony was forced to work as a prostitute before being rescued from a brothel in Indonesia. Chained to a bed, men could choose to pay to have sex with her - and she was shaved and made to wear perfume and jewellery.